Being in love Quote by Julian Fellowes
“Lust, that state commonly known as 'being in love,' is a kind of madness. It is a distortion of reality so remarkable that it should, by rights, enable most of us to understand the other forms of lunacy with the sympathy of fellow-sufferers. But, paradoxically, mad and suffering as one is, and the heat of the flame, few of us are glad as we feel that passion slip away No, while most people have been at their unhappiest when in love, it is nevertheless the state the human being yearns for above all.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Madness of Love, Julian Fellowes, 2005
Love is portrayed as an intense, irrational state that distorts reality, yet it remains the most desired human experience despite its pain.
In simple terms: Love is crazy but deeply desired.
Key Takeaway
Embrace love’s intensity while staying grounded.
Themes
passion
irrationality
desire
pain
Mood
melancholic
hopeful
Type
literary
reflective
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- creative writing
- counseling sessions
Key Concepts
psychology
human nature
paradox
Questions to Reflect On
- What makes love feel both painful and essential?
- How can we balance passion with reason?
A Different Perspective
Love’s turmoil can lead to unhealthy obsession.
