Astonishing Quote by Judith Martin
“Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant -- see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person's attention.”
About This Quote
Source Book: "The Art of the Table", 1999
The advice urges restraint from commenting on personal attributes or life choices, respecting privacy and dignity.
In simple terms: Avoid unsolicited remarks about someone's appearance or life decisions.
Key Takeaway
Practice discretion and respect.
Themes
etiquette
privacy
respect
Mood
considerate
polite
Type
guideline
social
When to use this quote
- dinner parties
- workplace
- social media interactions
Key Concepts
social norms
personal autonomy
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- What assumptions lead to intrusive comments?
- How can you shift focus to neutral topics?
A Different Perspective
People may feel judged or embarrassed.
