Arrivals Quote by Judith Martin
“It doesn't matter whether the bride or the bridegroom writes the letters of thanks for wedding presents provided that these go out immediately after the arrival of each present and are not in the handwriting of the bride's mother.”
About This Quote
Source Etiquette Guide: "Emily Post's Etiquette", 2008
Thank‑you notes should be prompt, personal, and not written by a third party to preserve sincerity.
In simple terms: Send quick, personal thank‑you notes.
Key Takeaway
Write your own timely thank‑you cards.
Themes
gratitude
personalization
timeliness
family dynamics
social etiquette
Mood
warm
thoughtful
Type
social
etiquette
When to use this quote
- Wedding gift acknowledgment
- post‑event thank‑you
- family event follow‑up
Key Concepts
Sincerity
social norms
communication etiquette
Questions to Reflect On
- Who should sign your thank‑you notes?
- How does timing affect gratitude perception?
A Different Perspective
Relying on others may seem insincere.
