Embraces Quote by Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu
““From these foolish embraces, which were not of very frequent occurrence, I must allow, I used to wish to extricate myself; but my energies seemed to fail me. Her murmured words sounded like a lullaby in my ear, and soothed my resistance into a trance, from which I only seemed to recover myself when she withdrew her arms. In these mysterious moods I did not like her. I experienced a strange tumultuous excitement that was pleasurable, ever and anon, mingled with a vague sense of fear and disgust. I had no distinct thoughts about her while such scenes lasted, but I was conscious of a love growing into adoration, and also of abhorrence. This I know is paradox, but I can make no other attempt to explain the feeling.””
About This Quote
The narrator feels a conflicted, paradoxical attraction that mixes love, awe, fear, and revulsion, recognizing the irrational coexistence of admiration and abhorrence.
In simple terms: Love can be simultaneously alluring and repulsive.
Key Takeaway
Passion often contains contradictory emotions.
Themes
paradoxical love
psychological conflict
ambivalence
desire vs. disgust
Mood
conflicted
intense
melancholic
Type
personal reflection
literary analysis
psychological observation
When to use this quote
- falling for a charismatic but dangerous partner
- being drawn to a charismatic leader despite moral doubts
- experiencing attraction to a controversial art form
Key Concepts
cognitive dissonance
dualistic affect
Practical Applications
- reflect on personal boundaries before deepening involvement
- journal conflicting emotional responses to clarify values
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal signals signal when attraction becomes harmful?
- How can one reconcile love for someone with deep moral repulsion?
A Different Perspective
The description may romanticize toxic dynamics, overlooking the need for healthy self‑preservation.
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