Eavesdropping Quote by John Ray
“Listeners ne'er hear good of themselves.”
About This Quote
Source Treatise: The Art of Rhetoric, 1660
He notes that people rarely hear praise about themselves, highlighting a lack of self‑affirmation.
In simple terms: People seldom receive compliments.
Offer genuine praise often.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- work reviews
- education
- coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why is it important to acknowledge others’ strengths?
- How can praise be delivered authentically?
Excessive praise can feel insincere.