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“The harder you strike it, the deeper it goes.” quote by John Ortberg
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“The harder you strike it, the deeper it goes.”

John Ortberg

About This Quote

Source Book: Love Does by John Ortberg, 2012

Intense criticism or pressure often pushes people to withdraw further rather than comply.

In simple terms: Harshness can cause resistance.

Key Takeaway

Treat others gently.

Themes

communication empathy conflict relationships

Mood

thoughtful calm

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • workplace negotiations
  • customer service
  • parenting
  • team leadership

Key Concepts

Psychology defensiveness boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you convey firmness without harshness?
  • What alternatives to aggression exist in this situation?
A Different Perspective

If the other party feels attacked, they may become more entrenched.

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