Quote by John le Carré
““We pretend a lot of things aren't there. Or we pretend that other things are more important. That's how we survive.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Spy Who Came in from the Cold, 1963
People ignore uncomfortable truths, focusing on distractions to survive emotionally.
In simple terms: We avoid pain by focusing elsewhere.
Key Takeaway
Acknowledge hidden issues directly.
Themes
denial
survival
distraction
Mood
thoughtful
somber
analytical
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace conflicts
- political crises
- mental health
Key Concepts
Psychology
existentialism
politics
Questions to Reflect On
- What are you pretending isn exist?
- How can you face it constructively?
A Different Perspective
Avoidance can prevent resolution.
