Disappointment Quote by John Burnside
“I don't want to suggest that matrimony was necessarily a tragic affair - some of our neighbours' marriages seemed quite functional, if somewhat routine; nevertheless, in the workaday world, it is wedlock that is most likely to offer the occasion for life-threatening disappointment.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Book of Lost Tales by John Burnside, 1995
Marriage often appears functional but can hide deep disappointment and danger in everyday life.
In simple terms: Marriage can seem normal yet bring hidden risks.
Key Takeaway
Beware of underlying issues in relationships.
Themes
marriage
disappointment
risk
daily life
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advisory
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family planning
- marital counseling
- friendship
- legal contracts
Key Concepts
psychology
relationship dynamics
illusion
Questions to Reflect On
- What signs indicate a marriage may become harmful?
- How can one protect oneself emotionally?
A Different Perspective
Not all functional marriages are safe; hidden flaws may emerge.
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