Mother Quote by Jhumpa Lahiri
““Though no longer pregnant, she continues, at times, to mix Rice Krispies and peanuts and onions in a bowl. For being a foreigner Ashima is beginning to realize, is a sort of lifelong pregnancy -- a perpetual wait, a constant burden, a continuous feeling out of sorts. It is an ongoing responsibility, a parenthesis in what had once been an ordinary life, only to discover that previous life has vanished, replaced by something more complicated and demanding. Like pregnancy, being a foreigner, Ashima believes, is something that elicits the same curiosity of from strangers, the same combination of pity and respect.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Namesake, 2003
Living as an immigrant feels like a perpetual, lingering pregnancy, constantly bearing the weight of new responsibilities and altered identity.
In simple terms: Immigration creates an ongoing sense of waiting and burden.
Embrace the evolving identity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- adjusting to new cultures
- navigating family expectations
- personal growth
- social integration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does this 'pregnancy' shape self‑perception?
- What strengths emerge from this continual adaptation?
May overlook the empowerment and resilience that can arise.