Brooding Quote by Jeanne Marie Laskas
““Brooding is more something I do when I'm working. I know so much more about sitting around worrying about a work project than I do about worrying about kids. This could just be a fact of life for older moms. We've worked and worked and worked and if we are lucky enough to finally have a child or two, we find ourselves suddenly catapulted into a most alien kind of chaos. Work is so much easier. Anyone will tell you that. To have a desk, where you have everything all lined up, and a schedule you more or less get to agree to. Work. I am a worker. This is so funny because I never really think of my work as work. I certainly never though of myself as having a career. Writing, work, this is just who I am. I am a person who sits at a desk and makes phone calls and taps at a computer keyboard and sips coffee and calls her mom at five. That I am anything better or smaller than that has come as sudden news to me. Brand new. News.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Mom Project, 2015
Older mothers often feel displaced when transitioning from structured work to unpredictable parenting, revealing identity shifts and hidden anxieties.
In simple terms: Moms can feel lost moving from work to kids.
Recognize and honor the identity change.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career change
- family dynamics
- mental health
- time management
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your work identity influence your parenting?
- What strategies help integrate both roles?
Balancing work identity with motherhood can be challenging.