Difficult Quote by Jean Vanier
“It is difficult to make people understand that the ideal doesn't exist, that personal equilibrium and the harmony they dream of come only after years and years of struggle, and that even then they come only as flashes of grace and peace.”
About This Quote
True equilibrium and harmony are unattainable ideals, only glimpsed after prolonged struggle and occasional grace.
In simple terms: Harmony is a distant goal, reached only after long effort and brief moments of peace.
Accept struggle as part of seeking balance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
- long-term projects
- mental health
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you cope with ongoing struggle?
- What moments of grace have you experienced?
Idealizing balance can cause frustration.