Change Quote by Jay E. Adams
““If a new relationship based upon biblical change and help is not established, then it is likely that one or more of the parties will revert to his old ways again. If so, again an unreconciled condition will develop. This failure frequently results in a kiss-and-make-up pattern.””
About This Quote
Source Book: "Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage", 1976
Unresolved relational patterns cause repeated cycles of conflict and reconciliation.
In simple terms: Old habits reappear without change.
Key Takeaway
Address underlying issues before rebuilding.
Themes
relationships
growth
conflict
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
self‑help
theological
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- faith‑based workshops
- personal therapy
Key Concepts
attachment theory
behavioral cycles
Questions to Reflect On
- What steps break the repeat cycle?
- How can forgiveness be balanced with accountability?
A Different Perspective
Changing deep habits is difficult.
