Consider Quote by Jay Asher
““Right then, in that office, with the realization that no one knew the truth about my life, my thoughts about the world were shaken. Like driving along a bumpy road and losing control of the steering wheel, tossing you—just a tad—off the road. The wheels kick up some dirt, but you’re able to pull it back. Yet no matter how tightly you grip the wheel, no matter how hard you try to drive straight, something keeps jerking you to the side. You have so little control over anything anymore. And at some point, the struggle becomes too much—too tiring—and you consider letting go. Allowing tragedy . . . or whatever . . . to happen.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “Thirteen Reasons Why” (2012) by Jay Asher
When life feels out of control, the struggle can become overwhelming, leading to thoughts of surrender and tragedy.
In simple terms: Loss of control can feel crushing.
Seek support and regain agency.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- friend support
- crisisrisis hotlines
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What resources can help regain control?
- How can we support someone feeling powerless?
May not capture all coping strategies.