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“I never exchanged a word with the Colonel. He has no significance at all in what happened during my stay in Oxgodby. As far as I’m concerned he might just as well have gone round the corner and died. But that goes for most of us, doesn’t it? We look blankly at each other. Here I am, here you are…” quote by J.L. Carr
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““I never exchanged a word with the Colonel. He has no significance at all in what happened during my stay in Oxgodby. As far as I’m concerned he might just as well have gone round the corner and died. But that goes for most of us, doesn’t it? We look blankly at each other. Here I am, here you are. What are we doing here? What do you suppose it’s all about? Let’s dream on. Yes, that’s my Dad and Mum over there on the piano top. My eldest boy is on the mantelpiece. That cushion cover was embroidered by my cousin Sarah only a month before she passed on. I go to work at eight and come home at five-thirty. When I retire they’ll give me a clock – with my name engraved on the back. Now you know all about me. Go away: I’ve forgotten you already.””

J.L. Carr

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Season in the Life of Emmanuel, by J.L. Carr, 1974

The passage reflects on the absurdity and emptiness of daily routine, the fleeting nature of relationships, and the longing for meaning amidst mundane existence.

In simple terms: Life feels empty and routine, questioning purpose.

Key Takeaway

Seek deeper connections beyond routine.

Themes

existentialism routine meaninglessness

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • office life
  • family gatherings
  • retirement planning
  • grief processing

Key Concepts

absurdity memory family work death

Questions to Reflect On

  • What small rituals give your day meaning?
  • How do you confront the feeling of emptiness?
A Different Perspective

The narrator’s tone may exaggerate nihilism, overlooking moments of genuine joy.

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