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Emily Dickinson Quote by J.D. Salinger

“You keep talking about ego, my God, it would take Christ himself to decide what's ego and what isn't. This is God's universe, buddy, not yours, and he has the final say about what's ego and what isn't. What about your beloved Epictetus? Or your beloved Emily Dickinson? You want your Emily, every…” quote by J.D. Salinger
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““You keep talking about ego, my God, it would take Christ himself to decide what's ego and what isn't. This is God's universe, buddy, not yours, and he has the final say about what's ego and what isn't. What about your beloved Epictetus? Or your beloved Emily Dickinson? You want your Emily, every time she has an urge to write a poem, to just sit down and say a prayer till her nasty, egotistical urge goes away? No, of course you don't! But you'd like your friend Professor Tupper's ego taken away from him. That's different. And maybe it is. Maybe it is. But don't go screaming about egos in general. In my opinion, if you really want to know, half the nastiness in the world is stirred up by people who aren't using their true egos. Take your Professor Tupper. From what you say about him, anyway, I'd lay almost any odds that the thing he's using, the thing you think is his ego, isn't his ego at all but some other, much dirtier, much less basic faculty.””

J.D. Salinger

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Catcher in the Rye, J.D. Salinger, 1951

Ego is complex; judging it simplistically ignores deeper motives and can cause harm.

In simple terms: Ego is nuanced, not just selfishness.

Key Takeaway

Consider motives before labeling.

Themes

psychology ethics human nature

Mood

thoughtful critical analytical

Type

philosophical reflective

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • leadership
  • conflict resolution
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

ego self‑concept motivation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What drives someone's behavior beyond ego?
  • How can we distinguish healthy self‑interest from harmful ego?
A Different Perspective

Over‑emphasis on ego can overlook other drives like fear or ambition.

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