Emily Dickinson Quote by J.D. Salinger
““You keep talking about ego, my God, it would take Christ himself to decide what's ego and what isn't. This is God's universe, buddy, not yours, and he has the final say about what's ego and what isn't. What about your beloved Epictetus? Or your beloved Emily Dickinson? You want your Emily, every time she has an urge to write a poem, to just sit down and say a prayer till her nasty, egotistical urge goes away? No, of course you don't! But you'd like your friend Professor Tupper's ego taken away from him. That's different. And maybe it is. Maybe it is. But don't go screaming about egos in general. In my opinion, if you really want to know, half the nastiness in the world is stirred up by people who aren't using their true egos. Take your Professor Tupper. From what you say about him, anyway, I'd lay almost any odds that the thing he's using, the thing you think is his ego, isn't his ego at all but some other, much dirtier, much less basic faculty.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Catcher in the Rye, J.D. Salinger, 1951
Ego is complex; judging it simplistically ignores deeper motives and can cause harm.
In simple terms: Ego is nuanced, not just selfishness.
Consider motives before labeling.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives someone's behavior beyond ego?
- How can we distinguish healthy self‑interest from harmful ego?
Over‑emphasis on ego can overlook other drives like fear or ambition.