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Expensive clothes Quote by J.D. Salinger

“Mattie,” he said silently to no one in the room, “you’re a little girl. But nobody stays a little girl or a little boy long—take me, for instance. All of a sudden little girls wear lipstick, all of a sudden little boys shave and smoke. So it’s a quick business, being a kid. Today you’re ten years…” quote by J.D. Salinger
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““Mattie,” he said silently to no one in the room, “you’re a little girl. But nobody stays a little girl or a little boy long—take me, for instance. All of a sudden little girls wear lipstick, all of a sudden little boys shave and smoke. So it’s a quick business, being a kid. Today you’re ten years old, running to meet me in the snow, ready, so ready, to coast down Spring Street with me; tomorrow you’ll be twenty, with guys sitting in the living room waiting to take you out. All of a sudden you’ll have to tip porters, you’ll worry about expensive clothes, meet girls for lunch, wonder why you can’t find a guy who’s right for you. And that’s all as it should be. But my point, Mattie—if I have a point, Mattie—is this: kind of try to live up to the best that’s in you. If you give your word to people, let them know that they’re getting the word of the best. If you room with some dopey girl at college, try to make her less dopey. If you’re standing outside a theater and some old gal comes up selling gum, give her a buck if you’ve got a buck—but only if you can do it without patronizing her. That’s the trick, baby. I could tell you a lot, Mat, but I wouldn’t be sure that I’m right. You’re a little girl, but you understand me. You’re going to be smart when you grow up. But if you can’t be smart and a swell girl, too, then I don’t want to see you grow up. Be a swell girl, Mat.””

J.D. Salinger

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Catcher in the Rye (imagined monologue)

The speaker urges Mattie to grow beyond childhood, to live up to her best, and to treat others with genuine respect without condescension.

In simple terms: Grow, be your best, treat others kindly.

Key Takeaway

Live authentically and respect others.

Themes

growth maturity authenticity kindness social responsibility

Mood

reflective advisory

Type

ethical motivational

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • mentorship
  • education
  • everyday interactions

Key Concepts

philosophy ethics coming‑of‑age interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you help others improve without patronizing?
  • What does “being a swell girl” mean to you?
A Different Perspective

Balancing kindness with honesty can be challenging.

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