Defence Quote by Ieyasu Tokugawa
“To come to know your enemy, first you must become his friend, and once you become his friend, all his defences come down. Then you can choose the most fitting method for his demise.”
About This Quote
Source Historical Record: Tokugawa Ieyasu, 16th‑17th century Japan
Understanding an opponent requires empathy; by befriending them you lower their guard and can act effectively.
In simple terms: Know your foe by becoming their friend.
Use empathy to gain strategic advantage.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- diplomacy
- military planning
- business negotiations
- personal conflicts
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can empathy be misused for manipulation?
- When is it ethical to befriend an adversary?
Friendship may be exploited, risking betrayal.