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Defence Quote by Ieyasu Tokugawa

“To come to know your enemy, first you must become his friend, and once you become his friend, all his defences come down. Then you can choose the most fitting method for his demise.” quote by Ieyasu Tokugawa
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“To come to know your enemy, first you must become his friend, and once you become his friend, all his defences come down. Then you can choose the most fitting method for his demise.”

Ieyasu Tokugawa

About This Quote

Source Historical Record: Tokugawa Ieyasu, 16th‑17th century Japan

Understanding an opponent requires empathy; by befriending them you lower their guard and can act effectively.

In simple terms: Know your foe by becoming their friend.

Key Takeaway

Use empathy to gain strategic advantage.

Themes

strategy empathy conflict psychology

Mood

cautious strategic

Type

tactical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • diplomacy
  • military planning
  • business negotiations
  • personal conflicts

Key Concepts

political maneuvering trust building

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can empathy be misused for manipulation?
  • When is it ethical to befriend an adversary?
A Different Perspective

Friendship may be exploited, risking betrayal.

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