Courtesy Quote by Honore de Balzac
“Courtesy is only a thin veneer on the general selfishness.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Le Père Goriot, 1835
People often hide selfish motives behind polite behavior.
In simple terms: Politeness masks selfishness.
Recognize true intentions beyond courtesy.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace interactions
- family gatherings
- customer service
- political negotiations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate sincere courtesy from self‑interest?
- When does politeness become manipulation?
Politeness can be genuine, not just a veneer.