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Courtesy Quote by Honore de Balzac

“Courtesy is only a thin veneer on the general selfishness.” quote by Honore de Balzac
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“Courtesy is only a thin veneer on the general selfishness.”

Honore de Balzac

About This Quote

Source Novel: Le Père Goriot, 1835

People often hide selfish motives behind polite behavior.

In simple terms: Politeness masks selfishness.

Key Takeaway

Recognize true intentions beyond courtesy.

Themes

social behavior selfishness etiquette

Mood

skeptical reflective

Type

analytical observational

When to use this quote

  • workplace interactions
  • family gatherings
  • customer service
  • political negotiations

Key Concepts

psychology human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate sincere courtesy from self‑interest?
  • When does politeness become manipulation?
A Different Perspective

Politeness can be genuine, not just a veneer.

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