Breeding Quote by Henry Fielding
“The raillery which is consistent with good-breeding is a gentle animadversion of some foible, which, while it raises the laugh in the rest of the company, doth not put the person rallied out of countenance, or expose him to shame or contempt. On the contrary, the jest should be so delicate that the object of it should be capable of joining in the mirth it occasions.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tom Jones, 1749
Gentle teasing should be light, inclusive, and never humiliating.
In simple terms: Kind teasing respects others.
Key Takeaway
Use humor responsibly.
Themes
humor
etiquette
social interaction
Mood
playful
cautious
Type
social
ethical
When to use this quote
- office banter
- family gatherings
- friend groups
Key Concepts
social norms
communication theory
Questions to Reflect On
- When does a joke become harmful?
- How can you ensure everyone feels included?
A Different Perspective
Humor can backfire if misread; cultural differences matter.
