Agreement Quote by Henry Fielding
“As a great part of the uneasiness of matrimony arises from mere trifles,, it would be wise in every young married man to enter into an agreement with his wife, that in all disputes of this kind the party who was most convinced they were right should always surrender the victory. By which means both would be more forward to give up the cause.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tom Jones by Henry Fielding, 1749
Marital disputes often stem from petty pride; conceding when you feel most certain can ease tension and foster cooperation.
In simple terms: Give up when you think you’re right to keep peace.
Key Takeaway
Let go of ego in arguments.
Themes
marriage
pride
conflict resolution
humor
Mood
lighthearted
reflective
Type
advice
humorous
philosophical
When to use this quote
- newlyweds
- couples therapy
- family gatherings
- daily chores
Key Concepts
human nature
ego
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you recognize when pride blocks resolution?
- When is it wise to concede?
A Different Perspective
May encourage avoidance of legitimate concerns.
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