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Assuming Quote by Henry David Thoreau

“Compliments and flattery oftenest excite my contempt by the pretension they imply; for who is he that assumes to flatter me? To compliment often implies an assumption of superiority in the complimenter. It is, in fact, a subtle detraction.” quote by Henry David Thoreau
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“Compliments and flattery oftenest excite my contempt by the pretension they imply; for who is he that assumes to flatter me? To compliment often implies an assumption of superiority in the complimenter. It is, in fact, a subtle detraction.”

Henry David Thoreau

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Civil Disobedience”, 1849

Flattery often masks superiority and can breed contempt; genuine respect should be earned, not given superficially.

In simple terms: Flattery can hide hidden superiority.

Key Takeaway

Seek sincere respect over empty compliments.

Themes

respect authenticity ego

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • leadership
  • teamwork
  • personal boundaries
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

social dynamics power relations

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is a compliment genuine?
  • How can you respond to insincere flattery?
A Different Perspective

Some compliments are sincere and constructive.

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