Assuming Quote by Henry David Thoreau
“Compliments and flattery oftenest excite my contempt by the pretension they imply; for who is he that assumes to flatter me? To compliment often implies an assumption of superiority in the complimenter. It is, in fact, a subtle detraction.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “Civil Disobedience”, 1849
Flattery often masks superiority and can breed contempt; genuine respect should be earned, not given superficially.
In simple terms: Flattery can hide hidden superiority.
Seek sincere respect over empty compliments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- leadership
- teamwork
- personal boundaries
- public speaking
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is a compliment genuine?
- How can you respond to insincere flattery?
Some compliments are sincere and constructive.