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“she would have to tell the story of this afternoon to herself over and over until she could make a different shape from it to comfort herself.” quote by Helen Dunmore
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““she would have to tell the story of this afternoon to herself over and over until she could make a different shape from it to comfort herself.””

Helen Dunmore

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Beekeeper's Apprentice by Laurie R. King, 1994

She must repeatedly recount an event to reshape it into a comforting narrative for herself.

In simple terms: Reframe painful memories by retelling them.

Key Takeaway

Revisit and reshape memories for healing.

Themes

memory healing self‑reflection

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • personal journaling
  • therapy sessions
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

narrative therapy psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you change the story without denying the pain?
  • What new shape can you give the memory?
A Different Perspective

Repeated retelling may reinforce trauma rather than relieve it.

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