Brothers and sisters Quote by Harvey Milk
““Gay brothers and sisters,... You must come out. Come out... to your parents... I know that it is hard and will hurt them but think about how they will hurt you in the voting booth! Come out to your relatives... come out to your friends... if indeed they are your friends. Come out to your neighbors... to your fellow workers... to the people who work where you eat and shop... come out only to the people you know, and who know you. Not to anyone else. But once and for all, break down the myths, destroy the lies and distortions. For your sake. For their sake. For the sake of the youngsters who are becoming scared by the votes from Dade to Eugene.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: LGBTQ Rights Rally, 1978
The speaker urges LGBTQ individuals to publicly disclose their identity to influence voting and societal attitudes, while cautioning about potential backlash.
In simple terms: Encourage coming out to affect politics and community.
Strategic visibility can shift power dynamics.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- elections
- family discussions
- friendship circles
- workplace
- community events
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What are the risks of public disclosure?
- How can allies support safe coming‑out processes?
Coming out may expose individuals to personal danger or discrimination.