Child Quote by Hanya Yanagihara
““We all say we want our kids to be happy, only happy, and healthy, but we don't want that. We want them to be like we are, or better than we are. We as humans are very unimaginative in that sense. We aren't equipped for the possibility that they might be worse. But I guess that would be asking too much. It must be an evolutionary stopgap - if we were all so specifically, vividly aware of what might go horribly wrong, we would none of us have children at all.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: discussion on parenting expectations
Critiques parental desire for children to mirror or surpass them, noting fear of worse outcomes.
In simple terms: Parents want kids like them, not worse.
Key Takeaway
Recognize realistic expectations for children.
Themes
parenting
expectations
evolutionary psychology
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
analytical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversations
- family therapy
- educational planning
Key Concepts
family dynamics
child development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do expectations shape child identity?
- What are healthy parental aspirations?
A Different Perspective
May overlook children's autonomy.
