Sick Quote by Hanif Kureishi
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““Women are brought up to think of others. [...] When I start to think of myself I feel sick.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Buddha of Suburbia by Hanif Kureishi, 1990
Societal expectations condition women to prioritize others, making self‑care feel alien or guilt‑inducing.
In simple terms: Women are taught to ignore themselves, causing discomfort when they try to focus on their own needs.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize self‑care despite cultural conditioning.
Themes
gender roles
self‑care
guilt
identity
social conditioning
Mood
reflective
empathetic
motivational
Type
advice
personal development
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- mental health
- career decisions
- family dynamics
- activism
Key Concepts
feminist theory
psychology
cultural norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you reframe self‑care as essential?
- What societal messages reinforce this guilt?
A Different Perspective
Self‑care can be seen as selfish, leading to internal conflict.
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