Dreams Quote by Gustave Flaubert
““An overwhelming curiosity makes me ask myself what their lives might be like. I want to know what they do, where they're from, their names, what they're thinking about at that moment, what they regret, what they hope for, their past loves, their current dreams ... and if they happen to be women (especially the young ones) then the urge becomes intense. How quickly would you want to see her naked, admit it, and naked through to her heart. How you try to learn where she comes from, where she's going, why she's here and not elsewhere! While letting your eyes wander all over her, you imagine love affairs for her, you ascribe her deep feelings. You think of the bedroom she must have, and a thousand things besides ... right down to the battered slippers into which she must slip her feet when she gets out of bed.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: "Madame Bovary", 1856
Intense curiosity about others can lead to objectification and intrusive fantasies.
In simple terms: Obsessive curiosity may reduce people to fantasies rather than seeing them fully.
Key Takeaway
Respect boundaries and seek genuine understanding.
Themes
curiosity
objectification
intimacy
ethics
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- social interactions
- artistic inspiration
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
gender dynamics
empathy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance curiosity with respect?
- What practices foster authentic connection?
A Different Perspective
It can romanticize invasive thoughts, ignoring consent.
