Assertive Quote by George Saunders
“My go-to default is to try to be nice, which I feel does less harm in the long run than trying to be, say, assertive. If I am nice and maybe too passive, I find that easier to live with.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New Yorker, 2015
Choosing kindness over assertiveness can reduce conflict and be more sustainable long‑term, though it may feel passive.
In simple terms: Being nice feels safer than being assertive.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize kindness when possible.
Themes
kindness
conflict avoidance
assertiveness
self‑care
Mood
thoughtful
balanced
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace interactions
- team leadership
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- When does kindness become self‑neglect?
- How can you assert without aggression?
A Different Perspective
Being overly passive can lead to being overlooked or exploited.
