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Gratitude Quote by G.K. Chesterton

“But there is a way of despising the dandelion which is not that of the dreary pessimist, but of the more offensive optimist. It can be done in various ways; one of which is saying, "You can get much better dandelions at Selfridge's," or "You can get much cheaper dandelions at Woolworth's." Another…” quote by G.K. Chesterton
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““But there is a way of despising the dandelion which is not that of the dreary pessimist, but of the more offensive optimist. It can be done in various ways; one of which is saying, "You can get much better dandelions at Selfridge's," or "You can get much cheaper dandelions at Woolworth's." Another way is to observe with a casual drawl, "Of course nobody but Gamboli in Vienna really understands dandelions," or saying that nobody would put up with the old-fashioned dandelion since the super-dandelion has been grown in the Frankfurt Palm Garden; or merely sneering at the stinginess of providing dandelions, when all the best hostesses give you an orchid for your buttonhole and a bouquet of rare exotics to take away with you. These are all methods of undervaluing the thing by comparison; for it is not familiarity but comparison that breeds contempt. And all such captious comparisons are ultimately based on the strange and staggering heresy that a human being has a right to dandelions; that in some extraordinary fashion we can demand the very pick of all the dandelions in the garden of Paradise; that we owe no thanks for them at all and need feel no wonder at them at all; and above all no wonder at being thought worthy to receive them. Instead of saying, like the old religious poet, "What is man that Thou carest for him, or the son of man that Thou regardest him?" we are to say like the discontented cabman, "What's this?" or like the bad-tempered Major in the club, "Is this a chop fit for a gentleman?" Now I not only dislike this attitude quite as much as the Swinburnian pessimistic attitude, but I think it comes to very much the same thing; to the actual loss of appetite for the chop or the dish of dandelion-tea. And the name of it is Presumption and the name of its twin brother is Despair. This is the principle I was maintaining when I seemed an optimist to Mr. Max Beerbohm; and this is the principle I am still maintaining when I should undoubtedly seem a pessimist to Mr. Gordon Selfridge. The aim of life is appreciation; there is no sense in not appreciating things; and there is no sense in having more of them if you have less appreciation of them.””

G.K. Chesterton

About This Quote

Source Essay: "The Man Who Was Thursday" (or related essay collection), 1908

The passage critiques the habit of demeaning something by comparing it to supposedly superior alternatives, revealing that contempt often stems from comparison rather than familiarity, and that such attitudes lead to loss of appreciation and wonder.

In simple terms: Devaluing things by comparing them to better ones breeds contempt and reduces appreciation.

Key Takeaway

Avoid comparing to diminish value; appreciate things as they are.

Themes

hum comparison contempt appreciation

Mood

reflective critical thoughtful

Type

philosophical analytical cautionary

When to use this quote

  • marketing
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  • art criticism
  • consumer choices
  • education

Key Concepts

philosophy social critique human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you often diminish things by comparing them?
  • How might you cultivate appreciation without comparison?
A Different Perspective

Comparison can obscure intrinsic worth and foster cynicism.

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