Disharmony Quote by Frederick Barthelme
““I lay on the bed and shut my eyes, thinking that nobody really likes marriage, that it's a flawed arrangement, that people get enthusiastic and jump in for a hundred reasons and then, after the ceremony, after a few years, the whole deal turns into a concert they wouldn't have dreamed of attending.””
About This Quote
Marriage is viewed as a flawed arrangement that many enthusiastically enter, only to feel trapped later.
In simple terms: Marriage seems flawed, leading to later regret.
Key Takeaway
Reevaluate marriage expectations.
Themes
relationships
marriage
disillusionment
Mood
skeptical
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
critical
When to use this quote
- novel
- social critique
- psychology
Key Concepts
commitment
social norms
personal fulfillment
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do people idealize marriage?
- How can expectations be managed?
A Different Perspective
May not apply to all.
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