Affection Quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld
“When we enlarge upon the affection our friends have for us, this is very often not so much out of a sense of gratitude as from a desire to persuade people of our own great worth, that can deserve so much kindness.”
About This Quote
Source Maxim: Moral Reflections, 1665
People often seek praise not from gratitude but to boost their self‑esteem, using kindness as a tool for self‑validation.
In simple terms: Kindness can be a means to self‑promotion.
Key Takeaway
Beware of motives behind flattery.
Themes
self‑esteem
validation
human nature
relationships
Mood
philosophical
insightful
reflective
Type
contemplative
inquisitive
analytical
When to use this quote
- personal interactions
- leadership
- marketing
- political persuasion
Key Concepts
psychology
ego
social influence
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we crave external validation?
- How can we give and receive kindness authentically?
A Different Perspective
May underestimate genuine gratitude.
