Expect Quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld
“How can we expect another to keep our secret if we have been unable to keep it ourselves?”
About This Quote
Source Maximes, 1665, French Moral Essays
Trust is impossible if we cannot first keep our own secrets; self‑discipline is essential for mutual confidence.
In simple terms: You must keep your own secrets to expect others to keep theirs.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate personal integrity before demanding trust.
Themes
trust
integrity
self‑discipline
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- friendships
- business partnerships
- family confidences
- team projects
Key Concepts
Moral philosophy
psychology of secrecy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you protect your own confidences?
- What steps can you take to build trustworthy relationships?
A Different Perspective
Even honest people can unintentionally reveal secrets, making absolute trust unrealistic.
