Bitterness Quote by Francis A. Schaeffer
““I have observed one thing among true Christians in their differences in many countries: What divides and severs true Christian groups and Christians - what leaves a bitterness that can last for 20, 30, 40 years (or for 50 or 60 years in a son's or daughter's memory) - is not the issue of doctrine or belief that caused the differences in the first place. Invariably, it is a lack of love - and the bitter things that are said by true Christians in the midst of differences.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Church and the Future, Francis A. Schaeffer, 1969
Divisions among Christians endure because of unloving words, not doctrinal disagreements.
In simple terms: Bitter words cause lasting rifts, not doctrine.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate love in disagreements.
Themes
faith
conflict
forgiveness
unity
communication
Mood
reflective
somber
hopeful
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- church meetings
- family gatherings
- online forums
- interfaith dialogues
Key Concepts
Christianity
interpersonal dynamics
memory
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you express love when disagreements arise?
- What steps can heal long‑standing bitterness?
A Different Perspective
Love may not erase deep wounds instantly; reconciliation takes time.
