Crush Quote by Francesca Zappia
““It's a strange feeling to like someone so much and yet be terrified to have them in your space, touching you. It isn't that I don't like it when we touch- when we brush arms or when he taps me on the shoulder or when I pick a piece of lint off his shirt. I like it too much. My body gets excited without my permission, and it's not okay. It's out of control.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New York Times, 2023
Intense attraction can feel invasive when physical closeness triggers uncontrollable arousal, causing fear and discomfort.
In simple terms: Strong attraction can feel scary and out of control.
Key Takeaway
Recognize boundaries and communicate feelings.
Themes
intimacy
anxiety
boundaries
Mood
conflicted
anxious
Type
personal
psychological
When to use this quote
- dating
- first dates
- physical contact
- personal space
Key Concepts
psychology
physiological response
emotional regulation
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your anxiety in close contact?
- How can you set safe boundaries?
A Different Perspective
The feeling may stem from past trauma or attachment issues, not just the present interaction.
