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Assertive Quote by Fatema Mernissi

“By putting the spotlight on the female child and framing her as the ideal of beauty, he condemns the mature woman to invisibility. In fact, the modern Western man enforces Immanuel Kant's nineteenth-century theories: To be beautiful, women have to appear childish and brainless. When a woman looks…” quote by Fatema Mernissi
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“By putting the spotlight on the female child and framing her as the ideal of beauty, he condemns the mature woman to invisibility. In fact, the modern Western man enforces Immanuel Kant's nineteenth-century theories: To be beautiful, women have to appear childish and brainless. When a woman looks mature and self-assertive, or allows her hips to expand, she is condemned ugly. Thus, the walls of the European harem separate youthful beauty from ugly maturity.”

Fatema Mernissi

About This Quote

Source Book: Beyond the Veil by Fatema Mernissi, 1995

Societal standards idolize youthful, passive femininity, marginalizing mature, assertive women.

In simple terms: Youthful beauty is prized, mature women are hidden.

Key Takeaway

Challenge ageist beauty norms.

Themes

gender beauty standards ageism

Mood

critical empathetic

Type

sociocultural feminist

When to use this quote

  • advertising
  • fashion industry
  • media portrayal
  • social media

Key Concepts

feminist theory media representation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do media portrayals shape our view of mature women?
  • What steps can empower diverse representations?
A Different Perspective

Changing standards can be slow and met with resistance.

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