World Remarkable Quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald
““But to be included in Dick Diver’s world for a while was a remarkable experience: people believed he made special reservations about them, recognizing the proud uniqueness of their destinies, buried under the compromises of how many years. He won everyone quickly with an exquisite consideration and a politeness that moved so fast and intuitively that it could be examined only in its effect. Then, without caution, lest the first bloom of the relation wither, he opened the gate to his amusing world. So long as they subscribed to it completely, their happiness was his preoccupation, but at the first flicker of doubt as to its all- inclusiveness he evaporated before their eyes, leaving little communicable memory of what he had said or done.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tender Is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald, 1934
Dick Diver’s charm creates fleeting intimacy, but his fear of commitment causes him to withdraw, leaving others with vague memories.
In simple terms: Charm can be temporary and fragile.
Key Takeaway
Beware of relationships that fade when doubts arise.
Themes
charisma
transience
relationships
Mood
melancholic
reflective
Type
literary
character study
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- romantic pursuits
- professional networking
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
commitment
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you notice when people pull away after initial closeness?
- What protects you from fleeting connections?
A Different Perspective
His avoidance may stem from insecurity, not malice.
