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Ashamed Quote by Evelyn Waugh

“We must go quickly before my sister gets back." "Which are you ashamed of, her or me?" "I'm ashamed of myself," said Sebastian gravely. "I'm not going to have you get mixed up with my family. They're so madly charming. All my life they've been taking thongs from me. If they once got hold of you…” quote by Evelyn Waugh
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““We must go quickly before my sister gets back." "Which are you ashamed of, her or me?" "I'm ashamed of myself," said Sebastian gravely. "I'm not going to have you get mixed up with my family. They're so madly charming. All my life they've been taking thongs from me. If they once got hold of you with your charm, they'd make you their friend not mine, and I won't let them.””

Evelyn Waugh

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Handful of Dust by Evelyn Waugh, 1934

A hurried desire to avoid familial entanglements leads to shame and protective aggression, revealing complex family dynamics.

In simple terms: Rushing away from family creates shame and conflict.

Key Takeaway

Consider consequences before acting impulsively.

Themes

family shame protectiveness conflict

Mood

anxious defensive

Type

reflective dramatic

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • emotional self‑control

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you often act quickly to avoid discomfort?
  • What are healthier ways to handle family tension?
A Different Perspective

Family ties can be both protective and restrictive; rushing may worsen issues.

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