Conflict Quote by Esther Veltheim
““Conflict never lies between two people. It always lies between rigid beliefs about the other person and the contradictions they show you. Conflict is always an inside job, but until you recognise this, it is easier to blame the other person.””
About This Quote
Conflict originates from our own rigid expectations and the contradictions we perceive, not from the other person directly.
In simple terms: Conflict is internal, not about the other person.
Key Takeaway
Recognize your own assumptions.
Themes
relationships
perception
self-awareness
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
insightful
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- teamwork
- negotiations
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
projection
Questions to Reflect On
- What assumptions am I making about others?
- How can I test those beliefs?
A Different Perspective
It may overlook genuine external issues that also cause conflict.
