Forgetting Quote by Ernest Hemingway
““[...] and Mary with her wonderful memory for forgetting was happy too and without any problems. She could forget in the loveliest and most complete way of anyone I ever knew. She could carry a fight overnight but at the end of week she could forget it completely and truly. She had a built-in selective memory and it was not built entirely in her favor. She forgave herself in her memory and she forgave you too. She was a very strange girl and I loved her very much.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: A Moveable Feast, 1964
The passage celebrates a person’s ability to let go, forgiving herself and others, and forgetting grievances effortlessly.
In simple terms: She can easily forget and forgive.
Embrace forgiveness and let go of grudges.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- self‑growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does selective memory affect relationships?
- Can forgetting be a strength?
Human memory is imperfect; selective forgetting can be harmful.