Absence Quote by Erich Fromm
“If one admits that the influence of the outside world is essentially beneficial, the lack of such influence during sleep would tend to diminish the value of our dream activity so as to render it inferior to the mental activity that takes place when we are awake, when we are exposed to these beneficial influences of surrounding reality. But how can one say that the influence of reality is exclusively beneficial. Could it not also be damaging, and could its absence not give access to qualities superior to those that we have when awake?”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, 1956
Dreams may lack external reality’s influence, making them seem less valuable, yet reality can also harm; sleep might reveal superior inner qualities.
In simple terms: Dreams lack outside influence; reality can be both helpful and harmful.
Consider sleep as a source of unique insight.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- creative problem solving
- personal reflection
- meditative practice
- psychotherapy
- artistic inspiration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities emerge in dreams that waking life suppresses?
- How does external reality limit inner growth?
Dreams are not merely inferior; they can offer distinct, valuable perspectives.