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Affair Quote by Eric Hoffer

“A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people's business.This minding of other people's business expresses itself in gossip, snooping and meddling, and also in feverish interest in…” quote by Eric Hoffer
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“A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people's business.This minding of other people's business expresses itself in gossip, snooping and meddling, and also in feverish interest in communal, national and racial affairs. In running away from ourselves we either fall on our neighbor's shoulder or fly at his throat.”

Eric Hoffer

About This Quote

Source Book: The True Believer, 1951

People avoid self‑reflection by focusing on others, turning personal neglect into gossip or meddling.

In simple terms: Avoiding self‑work leads to meddling in others' affairs.

Key Takeaway

Focus on personal growth instead of gossip.

Themes

self‑awareness responsibility gossip

Mood

reflective critical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal development
  • workplace dynamics
  • family relationships
  • community activism

Key Concepts

psychology social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal issues are you avoiding?
  • How does meddling serve your ego?
A Different Perspective

Self‑reflection is still required; external focus can be a distraction.

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