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Antihero Quote by Emma Donoghue

“Was that hard-hearted? Well, so what if it was. She'd been through enough to harden anyone. It was none of her choosing; all she'd done was clung on to her life like a spar from a shipwreck. Better to be hardened than crushed to nothing.” quote by Emma Donoghue
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““Was that hard-hearted? Well, so what if it was. She'd been through enough to harden anyone. It was none of her choosing; all she'd done was clung on to her life like a spar from a shipwreck. Better to be hardened than crushed to nothing.””

Emma Donoghue

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Pull of the Stars by Emma Donoghue, 2020

Hardship can toughen a person, but it may also protect them from being broken.

In simple terms: Hardship can make you resilient.

Key Takeaway

Embrace resilience, avoid being crushed.

Themes

resilience hardship survival

Mood

somber determined

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • war trauma
  • personal loss
  • stressful work
  • relationship conflict

Key Concepts

psychological defense emotional armor self-preservation

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does resilience become emotional distance?
  • Can vulnerability be a strength?
A Different Perspective

Hardening can also isolate you.

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