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Afraid Quote by Emily Harper

“Did you fall off a tree when you were a kid?” I ask. “Get pushed off a bridge?” “What?” he asks, momentarily distracted. “No, why?” “I don’t know,” I shrug. “I just thought that might be why you’re afraid of heights.” “Always the writer,” he softly laughs. “Nothing as dramatic as that. I just…” quote by Emily Harper
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““Did you fall off a tree when you were a kid?” I ask. “Get pushed off a bridge?” “What?” he asks, momentarily distracted. “No, why?” “I don’t know,” I shrug. “I just thought that might be why you’re afraid of heights.” “Always the writer,” he softly laughs. “Nothing as dramatic as that. I just don’t like them, never have.” “But there has to be a reason,” I say. “I mean, no one is really comfortable with heights, but to beafraid of them− something had to have happened.” “Did you ever get attacked by a herd of spiders when you were a kid?” he asks, raising one of his eyebrows in my direction. “Because I seem to remember finding you on a chair not too long ago, calling me and screaming that I have to come over because a daddy long legs was ‘eyeing you for lunch’.” “That’s different,” I say, sitting up a little straighter.””

Emily Harper

About This Quote

Source Short Story: Dialogue on Fear, 2021

Fear of heights often stems from early experiences, but rational analysis can reveal its true origins and reduce anxiety.

In simple terms: Heights fear may link to childhood events; understanding helps.

Key Takeaway

Explore origins of fear to lessen it.

Themes

psychology fear memory anxiety

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

narrative therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • self‑reflection
  • storytelling workshops
  • education seminars

Key Concepts

trauma cognitive therapy personal narrative

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal memories trigger your fears?
  • How can you reframe those memories?
A Different Perspective

Some fears persist despite rational explanations.

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