Great thought Quote by Emily Brontë
““I cannot express it; but surely you and everybody have a notion that there is or should be an existence of yours beyond you. My great miseries in this world have been Heathcliff's miseries, and I watched and felt each from the beginning; my great thought in living is himself. Nelly, I AM Heathcliff--he's always, always in my mind--not as a pleasure, any more than I am always a pleasure to myself--but as my own being.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Wuthering Heights, 1847
Heathcliff feels his identity merged with another, blurring self and other.
In simple terms: Heathcliff sees himself in another person.
Recognize the depth of emotional identification.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- grief counseling
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain self‑identity in deep relationships?
- What risks arise from merging selves?
Intense identification can erode personal boundaries.