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Connections Quote by Elizabeth Berg

“But in spite of my great desire for intimacy, I've always been a loner. Perhaps when the longing for connection is as strong as it is in me, when the desire is for something so deep and true, one knows better than to try. One sees that this is not the place for that.” quote by Elizabeth Berg
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“But in spite of my great desire for intimacy, I've always been a loner. Perhaps when the longing for connection is as strong as it is in me, when the desire is for something so deep and true, one knows better than to try. One sees that this is not the place for that.”

Elizabeth Berg

About This Quote

Source Novel: Talk of the Town, Elizabeth Berg, 1995

Desire for deep connection can lead to self‑imposed isolation when the intensity feels overwhelming.

In simple terms: Intense longing may cause one to withdraw.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and balance yearning with openness.

Themes

loneliness intimacy self‑protection

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

personal philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy sessions
  • creative writing
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

psychology human needs boundary setting

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fears arise when seeking closeness?
  • How can one stay open while protecting self?
A Different Perspective

Intimacy can be pursued without sacrificing personal space.

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