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“It is less mortifying to believe one's self unpopular than insignificant, and vanity prefers to assume that indifference is a latent form of unfriendliness.” quote by Edith Wharton
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“It is less mortifying to believe one's self unpopular than insignificant, and vanity prefers to assume that indifference is a latent form of unfriendliness.”

Edith Wharton

About This Quote

Source Novel: The House of Mirth (1905)

People prefer to think they are unpopular rather than insignificant; vanity masks indifference as unfriendliness.

In simple terms: Vanity prefers feeling unpopular over insignificant.

Key Takeaway

Be aware of how vanity distorts self-perception.

Themes

vanity self-perception social status

Mood

analytical reflective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • social interactions
  • self-esteem
  • public image

Key Concepts

psychology literary analysis

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why is being unpopular less painful than being insignificant?
  • How does vanity shape our social judgments?
A Different Perspective

May oversimplify complex social dynamics.

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