Change Quote by E. Nesbit
““I can't think what made him so horrid. Perhaps it was because he had been so very nice and kind all the earlier part of the day, and now he had to have a change. This is called reaction. One notices it now and then in oneself. Sometimes when one has been extra good for a longer time than usual, one is suddenly attacked by a violent fit of not being good at all.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Railway Children by E. Nesbit, 1906
People who are overly good for too long may experience a sudden backlash, feeling they must act contrary to their kindness.
In simple terms: Excessive goodness can trigger a sudden negative reaction.
Key Takeaway
Watch for burnout and balance kindness with self‑care.
Themes
balance
self‑control
human nature
burnout
psychology
Mood
reflective
cautious
analytical
Type
observation
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- workplace stress
- personal relationships
- volunteering
- parenting
- self‑improvement
Key Concepts
reaction
self‑regulation
cognitive dissonance
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you notice a shift after prolonged kindness?
- How can you maintain generosity without backlash?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes a universal reaction that may not apply to everyone.
