Change Quote by Dory Hollander
““Real change will come when you focus on yourself - not on changing him, Real change comes when you are willing and able to state your claim on what you are and are not willing to live with. Just remember to let him in on it””
About This Quote
Focus on personal growth rather than trying to alter others; assert your boundaries and values to create authentic change.
In simple terms: Change yourself, not others.
Set clear personal boundaries.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- self‑improvement
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries do you need to set?
- How can you model change for others?
Changing others is often ineffective without self‑change.