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Amorous Quote by Dorothy Tennov

“the amorous relation is “a system of infinite reflections, a deceiving mirror game which carries within itself its own frustration,” quote by Dorothy Tennov
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““the amorous relation is “a system of infinite reflections, a deceiving mirror game which carries within itself its own frustration,””

Dorothy Tennov

About This Quote

Source Book: Love and Limerence, Dorothy Tennov, 1979

Romantic attraction can become a self‑reinforcing loop of idealization and frustration, like looking into a deceptive mirror.

In simple terms: Love can trap us in endless, frustrating reflections.

Key Takeaway

Recognize patterns and seek realistic connection.

Themes

love illusion frustration

Mood

analytical melancholic

Type

theoretical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • first dates
  • breakups
  • therapy sessions

Key Concepts

reflection psychology self‑deception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate genuine love from endless?
  • What steps break the “mirror” cycle?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing partners may prevent genuine intimacy.

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