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“I'm going to make the obvious point that maybe the word neurotic means the condition of being highly conscious and developed. The essence of neurosis is conflict. But the essence of living now, fully, not blocking off to what goes on, is conflict. In fact I've reached the stage where I look at…” quote by Doris Lessing
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“I'm going to make the obvious point that maybe the word neurotic means the condition of being highly conscious and developed. The essence of neurosis is conflict. But the essence of living now, fully, not blocking off to what goes on, is conflict. In fact I've reached the stage where I look at people and say - he or she, they are whole at all because they've chosen to block off at this stage or that. People stay sane by blocking off, by limiting themselves.”

Doris Lessing

About This Quote

Neurosis arises from internal conflict; living fully requires embracing conflict rather than suppressing it.

In simple terms: Neurosis is conflict; living fully means accepting it.

Key Takeaway

Embrace conflict to live authentically.

Themes

psychology philosophy growth

Mood

thoughtful philosophical

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal development
  • mindfulness practice
  • creative work
  • relationship building
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Key Concepts

conflict consciousness integration

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you allow conflict to inform your choices?
  • What does “blocking off” cost you?
A Different Perspective

Suppressing conflict may protect short‑term stability but limits growth.

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