Astounded Quote by Doris Lessing
“I'm always astounded at the way we automatically look at what divides and separates us. We never look at what people have in common. If you see it, black and white people, both sides look to see the differences, they don't look at what they have together. Men and women, and old and young, and so on. And this is a disease of the mind, the way I see it. Because in actual fact, men and women have much more in common than they are separated.”
About This Quote
The quote highlights a tendency to focus on differences between groups while ignoring common humanity, urging a shift toward recognizing shared traits.
In simple terms: We often see divisions, not commonalities.
Key Takeaway
Seek common ground, not division.
Themes
diversity
unity
humanity
psychology
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
social
psychological
When to use this quote
- team building
- conflict resolution
- education
- community projects
Key Concepts
social identity
bias
common humanity
Questions to Reflect On
- What common values unite you with those you disagree with?
- How can recognizing shared traits reduce conflict?
A Different Perspective
Focusing on commonalities may overlook legitimate differences.
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